a MERRY CHRISTMAS TO EVERYONE
23.12.05
21.12.05
Winter Solstice
Today we had a Christmas lunch together with some European-instution-offices here in Edinburgh (all two or three people offices
It was again a beautiful sunny day and i know i always seem to rant on about it, but that is because it has such a positive effect on me. also because we are one floor higher - with a spectacular view (and lots more natural sunlight coming in) we (my boss and me) do not seem to feel as "depressed" (in the most light way of the word) by this dark winter-time...
and just as a demonstration as to how cheery we decorated our christmas tree, you can the see the photographic evidences here below! Merry Christmas everybody!
16.12.05
the music-box of Pandora
15.12.05
victorious
We also played a couple of games of - and now i have no idea how to say this in english - "table-football"! A game of which i am not a great fan because back in Belgium, all of my friends with whom i played it before, would always win... but yesterday luck was on my side - my great skills and the superb technique lead me to a glorious victory (or more probable : the fact that the three australian people probably never ever in their life played this game before helped a lot as well...)
Now it's looking forward to the xmas holidays. I have one week holidays between christmas and new year. Joris's mum will be visiting, as well as two friends from Belgium (will stay one night) and our good friend Ann is joining us for the Hogmanay celebrations! huray! let the party-season begin... (but not yet, because tonight and tomorrow night i am working with Joris in the restaurant)...
12.12.05
Wall to Wall
Did a lot of cleaning this weekend and Karine moved out, so we have our spare room again... it is a bit weird because she has been living with us for a while now, and the room has lost its previous function, so it is a bit lifeless now...
i would like to make a whole chicken in the oven tonight, but have not really an idea how to start... i checked some internet-pages but nothing inspired me... i want to do something with lemon, lots of garlic an fresh herbs... all tips are welcome!
6.12.05
Back in Town
My sister gave birth to a healthy boy, Dylan, but you have read that already of course. I met up with lots of friends and family, went to lots of parties, met new people, had unexpected meetings with old friends, I played with my old band “kabaal” again (still feels great – I really miss to play in a band), went to see my old colleagues, had a mission with my boss in Brussels and we went to a reception organised by Scotland in the European Parliament… loads of very nice things… last weekend I came back and I immediately started working in alli’s restaurant, together with Joris, who is unfortunately having some back-problems…
It was a great month in Belgium, but yesterday-night it felt also good to be back in Edinburgh, Xmass-feeling is in full swing, the relaxed meetings with friends, Edinburgh castle…
16.11.05
it's a boy !
The baby is doing fine, is very healthy, weighs 3.8 kg and is very peaceful and quiet...
His website (in dutch) you can find here
5.11.05
Almost Home
Been doing, well, actually nothing this week. a bit of sightseeing with friends of Joris, sleeping late, catching a little flu, and now this weekend starting to pack my things to prepare for the big journey... next Tuesday Joris and I are leaving for London, to be present at the Flanders Remembers Concert organised by the Flemish Representation in London. Then on Wednesday I travel on direction Brussels and Joris returns to Edinburgh. Oh yes, the restaurant will re-open soon! Ali has bought the restaurant together with the former Chef, which means that Joris will probably work in the restaurant! So everything seems to work out at last... and it seems we have a spot again to meet all those wonderful people!
next I will be blogging it will probably be from Belgium!
28.10.05
Pink Martini
I know Pink Martini almost exactly 5 years now, since I was studying in Finland with Maria – who introduced me to this amazing band. They are an eclectic mix of musicians, with their main base in Portland, USA. Although the band is centred around the pianist (could be the lost son of Elton John) and the diva-style singer, every musician has its moment of glory and contributes to the unique sound of this band. They bring a mix of traditional folk songs from around the world, not afraid to perform songs in Italian, French and even Japanese, combined with their own jazzy songs.
So yesterday night they were here in Edinburgh, and all dressed up in true Pink Martini-style (or at least something we think that is) we (that is my new friends Audrey and Jodi from New Zealand and Australia and Patrick) went to see them performing in Usher Hall. And they rather easily lived up the (high raised) expectations… I was a bit worried, because I had almost dragged the others to the concert – none of them really knew what they were up to… but it turned out really really well… Maybe just a bit too short… and I wished Maria was here to enjoy it with me... and joris off course as well, since i hooked him up with Pink Martini as well... ah...
27.10.05
On The Move
24.10.05
Corpse Bride
On Saturday, after an excruciating work-out in the gym, I had some drinks at Emilie’s place and then went out with Patrick. Sunday then… aaah sometimes I really love Sundays… doing absolutely nothing… sitting/hanging/sleeping in the couch in front of the television… the only reason worth leaving the house was to go and see Corpse Bride, the new animation film from Tim Burton.
Now before I continue I must confess one thing: I have never seen “The Nightmare Before Christmass” … shame on me… I hear that it’s a classic animation film…
Anyway, lured by the prospect of seeing… euhm… hearing Johnny Depp play alongside this wonderful crew of British actors such as Emilie Watson en Helena Bonham Carter, I found myself watching this new movie.
And I really liked it. It has everything what in my eyes a good animation needs: a good story, going from a to b, a playful musical score and lots of witty humour. But (yes there it is, the “but”) the creators seem to fail in one aspect, but rather an important one. They seem to fail to create empathy. And this I think has two main reasons.
First of all I think the movie is too short… by the time you really get to know the characters and come to like them, the whole thing is over.
But more importantly the story seems not able to decide with which character to sympathize… should you feel sorry for Victor (yes, that’s Johnny Depp) who accidentally marries a dead woman? Or for Victoria (a tribute to Victor and Victoria) who looses her fiancée to a skeleton? or maybe for the Corpse Bride because she cannot seem to get the love she so longed for…? As a result you seem to watch the whole film as an neutral outsider, who can enjoy all the things he sees, but wonders why actually he is watching…
But on the whole, a very entertaining film though, maybe something to rent as a dvd and watch on a rainy Sunday…
18.10.05
oh bugger
aargh... am very moody and grumpy this morning... i discovered (while already being late for work) that the window of my car got smashed... again. It is (if I at least didn't lost count) the fourth time they have smashed our car window. Now our street is notoriously located on the edge of a bit a rougher area in Edinburgh... but four times… and nothing is stolen, just for the fun of smashing… at least there was a little police notice on the car that they had noticed and to call them to make a statement… just what you need on a dull Tuesday morning isn’t it…
17.10.05
closing time
A thing happened last Friday night and it left all of my friends here in Edinburgh a bit homeless... our favourite bar where we all met up every weekend (and during the week as well), which had the best Thai food in town (in the neighbouring restaurant section) has closed down... On friday afternoon I heard from my friend that that night would be the last one...
A great pity, because the bar was our meeting place, where, since June this year a lot of sociable events have been taken place. We got to know Matthieu and Leslie, Maite, Rory, the people from BBC Scotland, the Scotsman, the regular guests, some artists (and free tickets) during the festival period, Mam and Cheng, Thomas, Kat, Sarah, Karlos, Morgan, too many people to sum them all up.
So where do we have to meet now? Where can we find a new bar, with the same privacy we had, with the same cheap beer and the same cool people? Difficult...
12.10.05
dance the night away...
Katrien and Elise have left Edinburgh today... a bit of a shame that the weather just these days was so awful, because for tomorrow they say it is going to be a lovely time. Anyway, it wouldn't be Scotland if the weather was always sunny and nice...
Tomorrow night I can go to the gig from Soulwax/2ManyDJs in Edinburgh. A friend of Joris has put me on the guest list because she knows the sound engineer. It should be pretty exciting, but the only down-part is that it is not really a gig, but more like a upgraded-live-performed-dj-set and that usually means: late at night… and since I will be working on Friday and Saturday evening for Alli…
Tonight I am going to the gym again (damn I should be going more often…) and then afterwards drink away the rain at Alli’s bar…
6.10.05
and so this is xmass...
The big master plan 2005/2006 has unveiled itself... the time of being decisionless (as being described in a former posting called “being Edinburgh”) is finally over… at least until spring 2006.
So what is the outcome? Well, we will stay a bit longer in Edinburgh but I arranged with my employer that I don’t have to work during November. (a gap of a month between my two yearly contracts) so no pay, but no work either! That means that I can be with my family when my sister gives birth to her third child of which I will be godfather (or –mother as some dare to say)… I am very excited to go back to Belgium to meet my family and friends again.
December will then be a very short month, with only three months to go until Christmas holidays… and then the new year begins… time just flies by… Merry Xmass and a Happy New Year!
3.10.05
ain't no mountain high enough
Again some very eventful days are ahead of us; this morning our friends left Edinburgh, tomorrow Joris is leaving for three weeks to work in France with a theatre company and next weekend two other friends are visiting me. Then in November - assuming that Brussels HQ will give its authorisation – I will have a one month holiday (I will leave a month between my old contract and my new contract) and will head for Belgium to visit my friends and family and more importantly be present for the birth of my sisters new baby, for which I will be godfather!
26.9.05
Have a Break
23.9.05
back in town
after their week in the highlands, Joris and Wendy returned to Edinburgh today - leaving Ruud behind at Prestwick Airport for his travel back to Belgium. Today I granted myself a little bit of an extended lunch break and I went to have lunch with Joris and Wendy in the Baxter's Shop in Ocean's Terminal with view over the Forth... very nice indeed, although my motivation to work this afternoon has gone down... but it is Friday, so a few more hours and the weekend can begin!
20.9.05
practicalities...
Joris, Wendy and Ruud left the house this morning round 6 o'clock (i guess, because - of course - i was still sleeping) to go on their trip to the Highlands with as target the Orkney Islands. Pity that i cannot join them (no holidays left) but fortunately the nice sun in town here in town eases this feeling a little bit. Had a bit of a crazy weekend, with - i seem only to recall - lots of eating and parties...
Did a lot of thinking as well this weekend and, step-by-step, the big "masterplan for the 2005-2006" is shaping itself... but before I give away too much clues about what might happen, I need to figure out some more practicalities to make this plan work...
16.9.05
J-Day
J-Day today... The weather-gods are celebrating with me the return of Joris on this beautiful Island this morning by giving us a clear blue sky, but rather cold temperatures (feels more like a nice december-morning or so). Joris will be accompanied by Wendy and Ruud. Tonight I arranged to meet up with Joris's old collegues in Alli's restaurant.... Monday is bank holiday here so probably we will go out on a excursion somewhere in the highlands... hurray!
12.9.05
Funky Monday
Although it is a pity that last weekend I had to say goodbye to my new (but rather short-term) friends Sarah and Karlos, who stayed with me since I was in Belgium. I will see them later this week one more time before they leave to a big trip around the world... It was great to have those two young enthusiastic, nice people around me. Not that it has been quieter now, because Alexander and Ellen are visiting me and also their company is very much enjoyable! Saturday night we ate out at Erawan's and yesterday we did a sight-seeing tour in the Highlands (Loch Lomond, up to Callander, through Stirling and back to Edinburgh) - Which reminds me that i will try to put a little movie online soon from my new rock band where I - very surprisingly - play the jumping-guitar!
I also managed to put some pictures online from my Joris' Bday party, some weeks ago already. if you click on this incredibly cool picture (?) you will be brought to the pics and hopefully have a good look&laugh!
8.9.05
private dancer...
But as a couple they longed for a bit of private space, which in the dorms in the hostel is a very precious and rare item. And the good thing with them living in my flat is that our time-schedule is very different, so we are not together all the time and we all can have our own time in the flat, but can enjoy a talk in the late evenings together.
The weeks ahead will be filled with sociality as well, with the arrival of Alexander and Ellen on Sateruday, a one-night-sleep-over from Emilie next week and of course the long-waited-for arrival of Joris on Friday the 16th! Hurray!
5.9.05
Musicality
well it has been a very quiet weekend; highlights? friday-night chat with Rosa from Spain, saturday-night at alli's restaurant and sunday the fireworks to celebrate the end of the festival. For that occassion we were invited by a customer of the restaurant to one of his empty office-buildings on the very prestigious Charlotte Square where there supposedly should have been a "designer garden" from where we could watch everything. Supposedly i say because, when we arrived in the building, being late already, we ran up the stairs and up and up and up... untill we found... nothing! no garden, not even windows with good views on the castle... so running back down, on the street up to princess street... I returned home rather quickly after the fireworks and watched with Sarah and Karlos the movie "Gattaca" starring Ethan Hawke and Jude Law... very good movie!
31.8.05
rain down on me
aah back in Edinburgh and the difference couldn't be bigger... since I arrived in Belgium, the weather improved every day until today 30 degrees Celsius - and now here in Scotland more than 10 degrees colder and grey and rainy...
It is also a bit how I feel after 5 exhausting but exhilarating days in Belgium. And everything went so fast... from sitting at the summerbar with Joris, to visiting friends, seeing my family back, picking up Alli and Emilie at the airport, the crazy birthday-party for Joris (remind me to tell you a story about this event, something truly shocking) a lazy afternoon in Antwerp, crazy party in my hometown...
A visit like this always let me long to go back to live in Belgium; I realise that I get a wrong image during such a travel; everybody is very happy to see you, they make a lot more time for you; but still...
24.8.05
going back to my roots...
it will be a busy schedule, like always trying to see too many people on too little time...
thursdaynight i am going with Joris to a theatre-play from the summerfestival, called Yerma,
on Friday i go to my old collegues from the company I used to work before I went to Edinburgh and then in the evening to see the new house of a friend near Leuven. On Saturday Alli and Emilie arrive so I will pick them up in the airport and then in the evening we will celebrate both birthdays of Alli and Joris...
Yesterday night and tonigh as well I will finish packing and wrapping in all the presents I have bought/made for Joris and also for my mother (her birthday was last saturday)
really looking forward to this - i know now already - too short a trip!
Will I see you in Belgium?
23.8.05
Love of my life
My love of my life is my friend Joris, and unfortunately he lives at this moment in Belgium, so not here with me in Edinburgh. Needless to say that I miss him very much and that it is very difficult sometimes to be here alone. Also needless to say that making decisions (see "being Edinburgh) is much more complicated and intense.
This thursday I go back again to Belgium to meet him and enjoy the wonderful time of being together; Just enjoying his great sense of humor or him seeing working for the summerfestival gives great satisfaction. It fills me with a great warmth...
And so sometimes you forget to mention this, in conversation or in blogs, and because other people are better with words than I am... so for all people who recognise these feelings, please read carefully
Dark as roses, fine as sand
Feel your healing and your sting again
Hear your laughing and my soul is saved
On forgotten graves you cry
Crawl like ivy up my spine
Through my nerves and into my eyes
Cuts like anguish or recollection
Of better days gone by
But it's alright when you're caught in pain
And you feel the rain come down.
It's alright when you find your way
Then you see it disappear
It's alright though your garden's grayI know all your graces
Someday will flower in a sweet sunshower
Eyes like oceans, so far away
A feather trail to a better way
Worried mornings turn into days
Then into worried nights
But it's alright all you'll be you are today
By Chris Cornell - Sunshower
22.8.05
four movies in one day...
in total i have watched four different movies on television, three of wich i really really enjoyed namely Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (great great movie! really a must-see!), Fairy-Tale:A True Story (with Harvey Keitel, a lovely childrens-movie about well fairies :-s) and the comdy-drama Cookie's Fortune (starring Glenn Close and Julianne Moore)
I also watched the still incredibly funny (ok, this is pseudo-intellectually not correct, but who cares anyway) Police Academy I...
Karine, Emilie and Alli came up to visit, we ate pizzas in front of the tv, even watched X-factor and Big-Brother Revisited (oh my, i just realise I must have watched tv all day...) Patrick and Heike stayed over... so lots of company!
So which other movies should i watch on such a typical lazy sunday-afternoon (this is for all you out there as a stimulans to post a comment, because i know you are out there somewhere :-) )??
17.8.05
spectacular spectacular
Wow....wow......
I went with the Spanish to a circus-performance yesterday called ImMortal2 by the artistic circus company NoFITstate
it was a long time ago already that i felt so captivated by a performance but yesterday's show really opened again parts of my heart and mind that had been closed for a while. During two hours I was taking away on magical journey through artistic circus and theatresque acrobatics.
I think one of the elements that enhanced this feeling was the fact that it was not a typical circus where you have to sit down and watch the show. In fact in this circus there are no seats at all and you only have to walk around in the big tent and watch the action around you. There is always one main "scene" going on, but all the other actors around interact and perform as well.
There's live, superb music, singing, dancing, humour, anger, love, one very sensual acrobatics act on a rope... aaah I cannot start explaining how good it was, if you can you really should try to go and look for yourself. It transformed me back to antwerp, where this circus could be a top attraction during the yearly Summer of Antwerp Festival, so I told Joris to go and have a look at it, so who knows, maybe next year in Belgium... ImMortal2
16.8.05
a new day...
I went out yesterday with Maria and the Spanish friends who are - still - here in Edinburgh visiting me. We went to Alli's bar where Morgan, our Canadian friend, was playing a little improvised acoustic gig. Lots of young people from Morgan's youth hostel were there. It was also the last night for the two French guys who were visiting Matthieu, a regular in Alli's bar (since I know he is a regular, I think I qualify for the same title) and his lovely girlfriend Leslie. |
My Spanish friends and the two French guys seemed to get along very well so after a good while - and bit too much red wine (I think i was blabbering around at the end...) - I left them all behind in the bar and went home. I presume they all went to the Underbelly, but stories still need to be confirmed... and was there maybe a little bit of sparky electricity in the air? we will have to wait untill the spanish awake before we will know...
10.8.05
the show must go on...
what strange times... in one day i had the most devastating experience since long and a few hours later I had the most wonderful experience since long... let me explain :
I came back home from work on monday to find my door of my flat wide open. First thought was that I had left it open when I left, but that thought soon dissapeared when I saw the complete mess in the hallway... burglars... and then it all becomes a bit vague, I don't know which room I checked first but the sheer shock when I entered the spare bedroom : my two pianos were gone... and it seems to be that these two were the only items missing...
If there is anything in the flat with which - by taking it away - one could hurt me the most, it is definitely my piano, or in this case even both of them. They are my creative outlet, my anti-stress therapy and just favourite activity... Off course they are only material items that can be replaced, but it is the damn unpracticality of not being able to play.... Aaaargh
But then on the other side of the emotional scale there was the visit of Maria, my good friend from Barcelona. I met her in Finland where she brought the Spanish warmth in the cold Finnish winter months. We have met not that much after Finland, but the friendship stays profound and I am sure she is the only person who knows me very very well... and that is why I am glad that she is here now and stays for a while, together with her crazy great friends !
life can suck and be great at the same time...
1.8.05
sunday night at the movies
I love going to the movies on a Sunday night. It can help to fight the Sunday-blues and it can be a nice way to end a beautiful weekend and hopefully begin a splendid week.
It has been a while since I last went to the cinema and even longer has it been since I did that on my own. Going alone to the watch a movie doesn’t bother me at all, especially with a theatre at a 2 minute walk from my doorstep. And going to the movies is a lone experience anyway – it can help you to get into the film easier. (note: it is not that I don’t like going to the movies with others, au contraire)
I do have lots of good memories of seeing films on my own, such as Gosford Park (which I went to see three times, a) because I didn’t understand everything the first time (dialects) and b) because it is such a fantastic movie)
Yesterday I went to see Charlie and The Chocolate Factory with Johnny Depp. It was really good, with hilarious musical intervals…but…I was not overwhelmed – Probably I was expecting too much of Depp after Pirates and Finding Neverland…
In the previews I also saw a lot of promising movies that are about to be released such as the Wallace and Gromit longplay-movie and Corpse Bride (animation movie directed by Tim Burton)… looking forward to autumn…
28.7.05
being Edinburgh...
how do you make big decisions in your life? Decisions that will influence the next couple of years... staying or leaving a town, going back to your roots, job security or none, leaving new friends behind or building new relationships abroad...
It turns out that almost all the people i have met here in Edinburgh are in the same situation... not really knowing what to do with your life... everybody is on the verge of a big change in their lives... but nobody is really undertaking action... Some will go to live on the carribean, others want to go on ski-season, others want to go and live and work in Germany, others starting up a company in Italy...
we jokingly named this feeling "being Edinburgh" - being in Edinburgh and loving it but planning to leave but not knowing when, where to and how... and most of the conversations end in "aah well, we'll see..."
15.7.05
it's a kind of magic
If you could do magic, what would you do?
6.7.05
G8-fun
And this morning I almost won two tickets for the Live8 Concert here in Edinburgh tonight - I was in the final round on a radio Show this morning (they were going to pick somebody who texted) and got a phonecall from them to say i was in the final group of people out of which they would select the winner. But... unfortunately i didn't win... :-(
It would have been nice though, because besides all the musical artists (s.a. Travis, Snow Patrol, Annie Lennox, James Brown) also George Clooney, Brad Pitt, Bono, Susan Sarandon and Bob Geldoff off course will be here tonight in Edinburgh...
Today I read something interesting - that the leaders teaming up together don't have the power to "change the world" as some people like to believe. Chirac's and Berlusconi's popularity is below zero, Schroder faces new elections and possible defeat, Putin is widely criticised in Russia, Blair started his last years as a PM, and even if Bush wanted to sign the Kyoto agreement, it would mean nothing because the American Congres voted against... only the Chinese leader (elected with only four votes against him in parliament) is the only one who can change things - but they are wisely staying out of the media attention...
30.6.05
and more fun
(maria if you read this : book your tickets...now ! :-) )
29.6.05
exciting summer
Why?
- Edinburgh Fringe Festival has released its programme and I never could have guessed the mere size of this festival... it is a voluminous book full and full of shows; theatre, musical, opera, dance, comedy, childrens activities... and it doesn't include the jazz festival, book festival, film festival, military tattoo and Edinburgh International Festival... oh boy oh boy
- My weekends for July are now fully booked (that's how I like them), with as a highlight the visit of three friends round 22 July (and off course next weekend my visit to Belgium
sounds exciting to me... :-)
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24.6.05
If we took a holiday
People in Germany, people in Aviemore, people coming over to see me(hurray)... i guess that's what they call having holidays...
but what if you live somewhere, where it feels like being on holiday all year round? When every weekend - on every trip you discover something new and beautiful? I guess at that point going on holiday means - going back home - back to Belgium. So that's what i will do - next weekend !
I am a bit afraid though - I will leave on the busiest weekend for travel (first weekend of July) and on that same day Scotland expects a record-number of visitors because of the G8-summit... (the political leaders actually will arrive on Prestwick Airport - where I will leave from - I'll say hi to Mr Bush when I see him... or maybe not...) - it is a petty that I will miss this first day (march on Edinburgh) but I will be back for the biggest fun on July 6th the big G8-Make-Poverty-History-Day... but definitely more about that later!
where will you go on holiday?
21.6.05
isn't it bizar...
- ...here in the UK earlier this week on one night more rain fell than normally in one month, while in my hometown in Belgium people are without water (and no doubt in other parts of Europe as well)
- ... because my pc is in the shop for repairs, I sometimes see flashes of the SIMS 2 in front of me (delirium?)
- ...how modern technology helps cocooning? : today for the first time I did my shopping online - and with shopping I mean like drinks, food, bread, milk, meat, etc. I got a free delivery voucher from the local superstore and so next thursday I will expect the delivery at my doorstep of all my goods... ain't that swell
- ...sometimes a comic can really describe how you feel?... I really love the cartoons from NEMI, that appear every morning in the METRO. She is a very black - almost gothic - girl with a lot of irony and self-relativising humour. go and have a look on http://nemi.thtn.com/
14.6.05
Smells
Just so once in a while I am overwhelmed by a scent - it can immediately catapult me back into the past and bring back - very vividly - memories i thought were long forgotton. And I am not only talking about perfumes of certain people. It is the memory of the smell of very peculiar things for instance the hairspray my grandmother used to have, or, just like I experienced today, the scent of the building of a school I went to - and together with that - memories about the wonderful time I had there.
This last smell is captured in the staircase-hall in the office-building where I work now here in Edinburgh. And I treasure this smell - on times when I maybe feel the need to be transformed back to those happy days, I decide to take the stairs and take a deep breath... and it keeps me fit as well
Perfume - Patrick Suskind
Regus Business Centre - Edinburgh